Using Male Psychology To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Fall In Love With You AgainSeptember 19, 2019
But what looked like a giant act of bravery (and a tiny bit of crazy) from me was really just the culmination of a series of small courageous choices, the kind of choices anyone could make on any day of the week.
Watch the shapes of the clouds in the monsoon skies. Can you find something in those shapes? A face? An alphabet? An object? A map? Who knows what you might find…
To begin advertising on craigslist, decide on the areas you would like to put your ad in. I advise that you stick to no more than five categories to keep it easy when you are posting ads. The areas I normally post in are marketing jobs, classes, sales jobs, and business jobs. The Schema Therapy behind posting ads here is that you’re looking to target leads who aren’t just looking for a different job.
Go back to your notebook now and write just a few words. These are non-specific principles but you will know they are your highest values because you will feel them resonate like an inner gong. Famous psychologist, Abraham Maslow, would call them meta-needs and meta-motivations. They transcend the basic drives to maintain physical or social life.
Anyway, the idea is to get the selves in sync with each other. Even if you’re aware of the selves, getting the basic self to cooperate can be challenging.
Do you become obsessed with fixing and rescuing needy people? Codependents are more oriented to other people’s reality than their own; they want to be someone else’s savior which makes them feel happier about themselves.
I hate to say it and would probably never admit it to anyone in person but if the techniques laid out in “Get Him Back Forever” were used on me I wouldn’t stand a fighting chance. I have seen how these psychological tricks were used on me in the past…probably unknowingly…but I did do a 180 degree turn around and went from never wanting to talk to my ex again to begging and pleading for another chance. Sad and pathetic but it is the truth.